If I ever ask you if you have ADHD or if you think you might be neurodivergent, I’m not trying to insult you.

I’m not suggesting that there is something wrong with you.

I’m not telling you that you are a problem.

What I am trying to do is to save you from suffering.

I’m trying to help you know that you are not the problem.

And that you don’t have to carry blame for having a brain that runs on a slightly different track.

You are doing grand and I am just offering my help.